♥Ciara "Cc" Denise
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Coming soon, and I can't wait!!
It's been awhile since I've anticipated an upcoming movie, but this looks GOOD.
With Mike Epps & Ms. Tasha ... you cannot go wrong!
Plus, I'm a simple romantic at ♥ ...
♥Ciara "Cc" Denise
"My ex-girlfriend taught me a valuable lesson, if you don’t show a woman you love her and give your all to her—she knows it."
So today I've been reading through all the blogs I've subscribed to but never look at, lol. I came across one that I think will make the top 10 list, just so I can keep up with his posts. The blog is BLACKGIRLSAREEASY.BLOGSPOT.COM ... and I will admit that the only reason I even clicked on it is becasue I was ready to read this fool for such a ratchet damn blog title. However, after reading through some posts I realized that although the blog title is very ignorant (he admitted it as well) he really isn't. It's actually a blog about relationships or in some cases just relations, from a man's POV. I'd check it out, ladies ... if only for a peak inside the mind of man who seems to have done it all AND actually learned something from it!
SN ... the title quote is very, very true ☺
♥Ciara "Cc" Denise
SN ... the title quote is very, very true ☺
♥Ciara "Cc" Denise
IMPOSSIBLE ... is nothing.
♥Ciara
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The fine art of "NO"
And all you want to do is run and hide!
The thing about being overwhelmed is that it makes you not want to do anything or better yet ... FACE anything. For fear that there is more to come. That the demands will never stop. The truth: they won't. Some-one will always need some-thing from you, just as you will always need some-one for some-thing. It's the way of the world, we're all co-dependent at our best. The trick is in prioritizing what's important and learning to SAY NO to whats not.
Telling someone you love or care about that you WON'T be able to meet a request of thiers may make you feel like a bad person, but I like to think of it as doing that person a favor. Seriously, I'm not joking! Consider this: If I say yes to something that I either really don't have time to do or really don't want to do, how good of a job am I really going to do?! Not only that, when it doesn't come from the heart it looses its effect. You become resentful and have an "attitude" about the task and/or person and nothing good comes from that. You feel like the person "owes" you something and when it's not reciprocated for whatever reason, your resentment grows. Or you spread yourself so thin that even though you don't mind helping out, you're tired and cranky ... and it shows. Either way, it's best to just be honest about what you are really feeling. If you have room for more on your plate and you don't mind helping, go for it! But, when you start to feel overwhelmed or better yet, once you know you're at the capacity of what you can handle before you start to feel overwhelmed, let it be known. You'll save yourself the stress, you'll save yourself time, and most importantly you'll save your relationships. People have no choice but to respect honesty. They may not like it, but if they choose to maintain the relationship they will respect it and it will free them up to be more honest with you as well. They have probably come to you in the first place because they know you'll do a good job ... why jeopardize that rep by performing below standard because you really didn't have time to focus on the task?!?!?! A good friend or family member will understand that you'd do anything for them under normal circumstances. You have to take care of yourself or everyone suffers.
Mom can ask your brother that sits in his room all day with his headphones to head to the store, and maybe Hubby can pick up his own dry cleaning since he's out anyway. The kids can bust the suds if they don't have anything better to do! While, you breeze through your assignment and the report with ease due to your clear mind and relaxed state! Okay, maybe in a perfect world but you get my point. Somethings can be worked out and once everyone is on the same accord the ship will run much more smoothly. There will definitely be more family-fun nights versus family-vent nights!
♥ Cc
Cc's Randoms ... what's yours?!
- I cry @ just about every movie I watch (yes, even comedies ... theres always something sad hidden b/t the lines)
- Cinnamon Toast Crunch is my ATF (all time fav) cereal.
- I'm a Certified Paralegal, CAM (Community Association Manager) & Property Management
- I listen to Audio books to unwind ( I know ☺)
- I've been with my fiance for 6 years ... we'll wed on the 7th ... can't wait!
- I've been writing since I was 10 years old & I have every journal I've ever written ... under lock & key, of course!
- I love the simplicity of Country Music and the 'feel good' effect of R&B.
- I tink Sterling Knight is waaaay too perfect ... something has to be wrong with him.
- I still watch Saturday morning cartoons ... even if the kiddies aren't home
- I've been on my own since I was 17.
- I divorced MYSPACE for FACEBOOK ... sorry Myspace, you were my first but I grew up.
- I LOVE being a Mommy ... even though pregnancy was never nice to me.
- I'm still tendered headed ... which is why I stick with my natural hair (most of the time ☺)
- I ♥ staying in hotels {beautiful scenery + room service = bliss for any woman running a full house}
- I'm the 'go-to' friend ... not the hang out buddy {I simply can not hang ... and I'm okay with that ;-)}
- I used to want a puppy ... and then I had kids.
- I do have 3 Rotties, Sasha, Cleo & Scooby ... all the Hubby's responsibility ☺
- I DREAM in real life. You should try it ...
So, there you have it! All me & now it's your turn!! It doesn't have to be as long as mine, lol.
Let me see it ...
Do you have a Plan?!
Do you lead a life filled with all the things you love - including relationships, the career, the hobbies - with energy to spare?! Do you manage the office and the household?! Are you a single girl making it happen for yourself?! Are you doing what you love and loving yourself in the process?!If you answered yes to any of these questions, you are indeed Every Woman!
Being Every Woman simply means that you take on many different hats to fulfill whatever goals you have for yourself and your family. You stop at nothing and allow nothing to block you from living a life you truly love!
So often, we set out to do all the things we love and soon realize that some element suffers, usually ourselves. It doesn't have to be this way and I can show you how you can do & be it all ... and still have time for yourself!
What's Your Plan?
Seriously, take a moment and answer that question. Do you know what it is that you want out of life? Do you know how to go about getting that? Do you know how to organize and maintain everything else in your life so that you actually have time to do & get what you REALLY want?
No? Well then, how do you expect to get what you want? I got this one ... you don't.
It's really very simple. If you have no idea of what you want or how you can get it, chances are you won't get it. It will continue to feel like a dream. Something that you have to be asleep to actually enjoy or even believe in. What you should know is that absolutely A.N.Y.THING that you want in life is possible and the necessary second step is to believe it. When you believe it, you expect it. When you expect it, you align yourself with everything that comes with it.
Notice whats missing yet? ... "IT"
In order for you to believe in something you have to know exactly what "it" is. You have to know that "it" is possible and the only way to do is to figure out how it can be possible.
The absolute first step in getting what you want is to KNOW what you want.
EWNAP focuses on self-love, time management, and goal setting skills to help women clear out mental and physical clutter. This is the only way to figure out and to make room for what you really want in your life!
What will you learn from EWNAP?
√ Direct instructions on how to create your very own Life Plan!
√ Simple tips to erase clutter & chaos from your mind, your home, & your life!
√ An essential cleaning guide & tips for any woman caring for a family & a home!
√ Daily rituals & routines that take the high out of high-maintenance without forfeiting results!
√ A workbook that guides you through the thought process to Loving your Life!
√ Much, much more for the Woman that wants to do & be it all!
Absense makes the ♥ grow fonder?!?!?
I definitely believe so...
I MISS BLOGGING
!!!!!!
!!!!!!I'll be back soon, blogging buddies!!!
Wanting More
Life takes its stand on things
and you just have to figure out
what it is that you truly want from this
sans negative thoughts and doubts.
If you really believe that it can happen
then that's where the journey begins
You have to know that whatever it is
you'll only get out what you put in.
There's nothing wrong with taking a few steps
even if you're not sure to where it may lead
The important part is that you've taken that step
to cultivate the growth of that seed.
Every successful venture out there
started as "just" an idea
So that's my motivation to succeed
in the 2nd century and the 10th year.
Ms. Keri, baby ...
Wow ... I know I'm late as ALL hell, but I am literally in love with 'A Perfect World'. I've actually had it for a long while, but only listened to the songs that I knew from the radio. The songs I had already fallen for, but had grown tired of hearing .... so, in the case the cd went until recently I needed something to take my mind off the mundane & boring that is my day j
ob. I decided to give the rest of the cd a chance and what do I get ... a blast from the damn past!! I swear I can only currently relate to one song ... Make Love, cause that's how I've been feelin' lately about my Honey bunz. But when I tell you, at some point in time I've felt every single damn thing this Chick is singing about ... it is really crazy. I think she's been reading ALL of my damn journals!!! CRAZY. But I love her for it. Just revisiting without actually having to go that crazy shit, is kinda nice. I'm definitely in my zone with Ms. Keri. Don't change me, Tell him the truth, Where'd you go, Alienated, Intuition, Energy ... My whole damn life story right there.
ob. I decided to give the rest of the cd a chance and what do I get ... a blast from the damn past!! I swear I can only currently relate to one song ... Make Love, cause that's how I've been feelin' lately about my Honey bunz. But when I tell you, at some point in time I've felt every single damn thing this Chick is singing about ... it is really crazy. I think she's been reading ALL of my damn journals!!! CRAZY. But I love her for it. Just revisiting without actually having to go that crazy shit, is kinda nice. I'm definitely in my zone with Ms. Keri. Don't change me, Tell him the truth, Where'd you go, Alienated, Intuition, Energy ... My whole damn life story right there.
Love what you do ...
For the Young who want to
Talent is what they say you have after the novel is published and favorably reviewed. Beforehand what you have is a tedious delusion, a hobby like knitting.
Work is what you have done after the play is produced and the audience claps. Before hand the friends keep asking when you are planning to go out and get a job.
Genius is what they know you had after the third volume of remarkable poems. Earlier they accuse you of withdrawing, ask why you don't have a baby, call you a bum.
The reason people want M.F.A's, take workshops with fancy names when all you can really learn is a few techniques, typing instructions and somebody else's mannerisms.
Is that every artist lacks a license to hang on the wall like your optician, your vet proving you may be a clumsy sadist whose fillings fall into the stew but you're certified a dentist.
The real writer is one who really writes.
Talent is an invention like phlogiston after the fact of fire.
Work is its own cure.
You have to like it better than being loved.
~Marge Piercy~
I read this poem today and related immediately.
You have to absolutely LOVE what you do even if no one else loves you for it ... yet!
Music Makes Me Happy
So, I've been running through all my old cds and flipping through youtube videos for the better part of today and I swear to you ... I've experienced every emotion one person can possibly feel in one day!! I've been crying, laughing, staring blankly at nothing in paticular, all because of whatever song is on at any given moment. Sounds like I've on some type of drug, right?!?!? Well, glad to say it ... I'm drug free cause that's the way to be. The only thing that's been gettin' me high today is good ole' MUSIC. Love it, all of it. I've been listening to everything from the old New Edition to the New {but old now!} New Edition!!! Montell Jordan, Aaliyah, Monifah, Total ... even N-Toon. Don't know who that is???? Well, I'm sure you know of Young Lloyd {Street Love, Southside, You, Girls around the world} ... it's the group he started out in many many many years ago, google it. It's crazy, cuz I didn't even know he was in that group and I've been looking for that song "Ready" forever!!! I'm just ramblin' now, but I've definitely been in my zone today. Good times. Good times.
So Glad It's Friday ...
After going without sleep for 36+ hours ... I was no good to anyone for the latter part of the day. Worst part is, I think I'm coming down with a cold. Ugh. Evenstill, I'm going to enjoy my Fam Day tomorrow. So I'm not complaining. I have waaay too much to be happy about right now. I'll post pics when it's all said & done. **BTW ** It's my step~son's bday ... Happy Bday Jaja!! Cc loves you baby ...
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